"I Did It My Way!"

So we know that it is important to allow your children to express their "individuality," and I whole-heartedly agree; for now; at this point; in this moment in time, etc. But how will I feel later on in their lives?

Will I agree with their self-expression if it involves pierced body parts other than ears? Will I agree with various colored hair that leads people to believe my children are some mutant humans that have ties to the peacock family? Furthermore, will I support my children if they rally against something I'm in favor of? Will I support their choice of profession? Will I support their faith, if they decide to follow a different denomination than that in which they were raised?

My answer for now;

I honestly don't know what I'll do, or how I'll react.

I do know that I love them with all my heart. I know that my world revolves around them. I know that I have made mistakes and will continue to do so, but not without the best of intentions. At this present moment in their lives I can say, "I did it my way." However, I am well aware of there being a time when they will look at me, smile in that special way, and say, "Hey Mom, I need to do it MY WAY." I pray that I will have the strength to accept that with a smile. I pray that I will have raised them to make the best decisions. I also pray that their father can accept it as well. You might need to pray for him too.